Within the last year or so, I've tried telling them I don't want to talk about politics, but, with my dad, it invariably comes up because it's a major interest of his. I find myself saying, "Uh-huh" a lot because I don't want to get involved in an argument and I know that I will never change his mind on anything (I've tried). I know my dad is not trying to upset me--politics is just his hobby, I guess--but I feel uncomfortable listenning to not only topics in which I disagree, but I'm also very uncomfortable with the way they are handled. How can I continue having a good relationship, particularly with my dad, if I can't stomach his O'Reilley-ish rants, even though it's something that he really enjoys discussing?
What's your advice? I'll post mine on Friday. (I can tell you right now I don't have a magic bullet for this one, though. I look forward to hearing your advice, and experiences, in the comments.
PARENTS & POLITICS, TAKE 2: Meredith Goldstein and I will be leading a talkback for this Sunday's matinee of "God of Carnage" at the Huntington Theater. From the description of the play:
Two sets of parents meet for the first time to settle their sons' nasty schoolyard tangle. But all attempts at civilized discussion quickly devolve into childlike behavior in this fast, furious, and very, very funny comedy of bad manners.
I have three pair of tickets to give away to the Sunday, January 29 2pm matinee. The first three commenters who ask shall receive! I hope to see you at the show.
