Her Thai dreamland

June 15, 2003|Where they went, Diane Daniel, Globe Correspondent

For many years, and inspired partly by reading books set there, Carol Belding has been fascinated by Thailand. So when Belding, 53, a cofounder and co-administrator of Four Women clinic in Attleboro, was planning a trip to Asia to see one of her sons, she added a tour to the land she had long dreamed of seeing.

Her son Peter Abraham works as an actor and underwear model in Taiwan and Hong Kong, or the "uber-city," as she calls it after spending several days there. "It's part `Blade Runner,' part `Minority Report,' and part `Total Recall,' " she said. The other surreal aspect was seeing her son's image plastered on walls and billboards. She saw her other son, Jonathan Abraham, in Los Angeles -- "the other foreign country I visited."

In between, Belding spent 17 days on "Explorer's Thailand," a tour offered by AsiaTranspacific Journeys (www.

asiatranspacific.com) of Boulder, Colo. "I hate tents; I camp at the Ritz," declared Belding, who lives in Lexington. "I knew I was going to be uncomfortable, but I was willing to be uncomfortable to do what it takes."

When husband, Henry Abraham, "read the itinerary he started laughing so hard he was crying, because it was so not me."

She had tried to physically train before leaving, but learned that she didn't train enough. After hiking down a steep incline for hours on the first day of a four-day trek to visit hill tribes, she was exhausted, overheated, and dehydrated. "I had humor about it, but I was afraid I wouldn't be able to continue."

After discussing her plight, she decided to soldier on, but took better precautions, including wearing less clothing and using a dehydration supplement. It was a decision for which she is thankful.

"It is impossible for me to explain how meaningful it was to be with these people," she wrote in an e-mail to friends and family about the hill tribes. "It was like stepping inside a display in the Museum of Natural History, dust and all. The houses were built on stilts and the animals live below. . . . Chickens, chicks, ducks, pigs, water buffalo, elephants."

They followed walking paths between villages. "Sometimes we could hear motorcycles going through the woods, but most people walked. Or you could see some people running. Some of the paths, I discovered, had elephant tracks. Which was so cool. There were palm trees and banana trees, but it wasn't dense forest."

Belding's group consisted of seven travelers, a tour guide, and sometimes porters and drivers. She had never been on such a planned trip before, but raves about this one, particularly that the stops were not overly touristed or crowded.

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